Whoever does not have the Spirit cannot receive the gifts that come from God's Spirit. 1 Corinthians 2:14 (TEV).
You
can't earn your spiritual gifts or deserve them --
that's why they are
called gifts!
They're an expression of God's grace to you: "Christ has
generously divided out his gifts to us." (Ephesians 4:7, CEV)
Nor
do
you get to choose which gifts you'd like to have.
Paul explains that God
determines that, "It is the one and only Holy Spirit who distributes
these gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should have." (1
Corinthians 12:11, NLT).
Because
God loves variety, and he wants us to be special,
there's no one
single gift given to everyone,
and no individual receives all the
gifts.
If you had them all, you'd have no need of
anyone else,
and that would defeat one of God's purposes --
to teach us
to depend on each other.
Your spiritual gifts were not given for your own benefit
but for the benefit of others,
just as other people were given gifts for your benefit.
The Bible
says, "A spiritual gift is given to each of us as a means of helping
the entire church" (1 Corinthians 12:7, NLT).
When we use our gifts
together, we all benefit.
If
others don't use their gifts,
you get cheated, but if you don't use your
gifts, they get cheated.
This is why God wants us to discover and
develop our spiritual gifts.
Whenever
we forget these basic truths about gifts,
it always causes trouble in
the church.
Two common problems are "gift-envy" and "gift-projection."
The first occurs when we compare our gifts
to others,
feel dissatisfied with what God gave us,
and become resentful or jealous of how God uses others.
The
second problem happens when you expect everyone else
to have your
gifts, do what you're called to do,
and feel as passionate about it as
you do.
The Bible says,
"There are different kinds of service in the
church, but it is the same Lord we are serving" (1 Corinthians 12:5,
NLT).
Sometimes spiritual gifts are overemphasized
to the neglect of the
other factors that God uses to shape
you for service.
So keep in mind,
your gifts reveal one part of God's will
for your ministry, but not all
of it.
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" 10 Principles for Peace of Mind "
1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business
Unless Asked.
Most of us create our own problems by
interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have
convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic
and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to
the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of
individuality and consequently the existence of God.. God has created each one
of us in a unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same
way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them
that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace.
2. Forgive And Forget:
This is the most powerful aid to
peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who
insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of
sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or
injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly
remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such
trifles. Forgive,Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.
3. Do Not Crave For Recognition:
This world is full of selfish people.
They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today
because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget
your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill
yourse lf in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the
aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely.
4. Do Not Be Jealous:
We all have experienced how jealousy
can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your
colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You
started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your
neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like
these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No. Remember everybody's life is
shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are
destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so
destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others
for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere, it will only take away
your peace of mind.
5. Change Yourself According To The
Environment:
If you try to change the environment
single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit
your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been
unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious.
6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured:
This is the best way to turn a
disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences,
ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot
control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must
learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms
of patience, inner strength and will power.
7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew:
This maxim needs to be remembered
constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of
carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take
on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind
by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and
spend time in prayer, introspection and meditation. This will reduce those
thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce
greater peace of mind.
8. Meditate Regularly:
Meditation calms the mind and gets
rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and
experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday,
your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and
half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before. You would
benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think
that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will
increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less
time.
9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant:
An empty mind is the devil's
workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in
something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something
that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of
mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you
more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even !
when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental
chanting of God's name.
10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret:
Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done. It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was desti ned to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?
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